Hi guys, long time no speak, reasons why in another thread when I get round to it.
Well this exact thing happened to me Angie. I had a one night stand 5 years ago with a girl I was working with. She asked me out on a date and we got really drunk. and slept together. It turned out the next day we "did" use protection, but the condom used was hers as we where at her place.
Month later I got a call from a mate, he found out i slept with this girl and he said she was a bit.... well lack of a better word "mental??" she wanted a child, and was hell bent in getting one with or without support. She told him that she was pregnant.. now to this day she don't know i knew of 4 other guys that could have been the father.. i was No. 2 on the list. I ran down the clinic that day to make sure i wasnt carrying anything.. it turned out I wasn't thank god.
2 years later i had forgot about that life and moved on with mine. Then all of a sudden a letter from the CSA turned up on my doorstep. Stating that I must pay child support. See guy No.1 had a DNA test, so I was No.2 on the list.. i argued with the CSA for 2 years till i got my MP to force them to have a DNA test. And they gave me one... it turned out I am the father... and have never met this kid. I would love too but not a law in this land will ever help me, with out me spending thousands of pounds i don't have on lawyers etc.
My whole feeling about this is that these women are obviously out for themselves. Children should never be used like this no matter the reason or intentions these people have. Having a child is between a man and a woman, and should be a mutual thing. Yes people break up and that's when the CSA should be used. But more and more, year by year the single mum figure increases, coupled with the increase in anti social behaviour and increase in gang crime.
Its destroying our families the way the Gov. pour money into single parents.
These girls should never get a penny of anyone's money if they choose the baby factory life style.